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Life’s too short to try to make these short-run relationships anything more than what they’re meant to be - quick love lessons on your way to something bigger and better. If he’s not giving you the attention you want and you feel like things have taken a turn for the worse only four months into this thing, MOA. You need someone who has the time to devote to you and can make you a priority in a way this guy can’t or won’t. LW, you and this guy are 15 years apart and at different points in your lives. Four months IS the beginning of a relationship. If you’ve been with someone even less than six months - we’re talking four whole months here - and you’re talking about how things were much better “in the beginning” of your relationship, that’s crazy. The first six-month period IS the honeymoon period. Here’s a general rule of thumb for you and everyone else: If, in the first six months, you are feeling like the honeymoon period is over, MOA. Do you think it’s worth hanging on to see what happens and, if so, what should I do to try to save the relationship? - Having Doubts I’ve been thinking I should wait another month to see what happen, but I’m having doubts. I’ve talked to him about it, and he said he sees a future with me and would try harder. Even worse, he doesn’t call and show attention like he did in the beginning. Additionally, I have not met any of his friends, family, or his daughter yet. This and her extracurricular activities seem to take up all his time now. He says she has issues with putting off schoolwork so he has to stay on her. At first he called frequently and we would spend lots of time together, but he recently moved his 17-year-old daughter in with him so that he could be a full-time parent and that has changed our relationship.
I’m 33 years old and I’ve been seeing my 48-year-old boyfriend for four months.
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